advised a woman saying, “See where you are from him (in his view) because he is your Paradise (if he is pleased with you), and he is your Fire (if he is angry with you).” (Ahmad)
708. The husband’s rights upon his wife are: not to forsake his bed, to fulfill his oath, to obey his order, not to go out without his permission, and not to let anybody whom he hates into his house. (At-Tabaraani)
709- حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلى المَرْأَةِ أَنْ لاَ تَمْنَعَهُ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ عَلَى قَتَبٍ. الطبراني709. The husband’s right upon his wife is not to prevent him (from coming to her) even if she is very busy. (At-Tabaraani)
710- إذَا صَلَّتَ الَمْرَأَةُ خَمْسَها وصَامَتْ شَهْرَها وَحَفِظَتْ فَرْجَها وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا دَخَلَتْ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الجَنَّةِ شَاءَتْ. ابن حبان710. If the woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her modesty, and obeys her husband, she will enter from whatever door of Paradise she wishes. (Ibn Habban)
711- لاَ يَحِلُّ للمَرْأَةِ أَنْ تَصُومَ وَزَوجُهَا شَاِهِدٌ إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِهِ وَلاَ تَأْذَنَ في بيتِهِ إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِهِ وَما أَنْفَقَتْ عَنْ غَيْرِ أَمْرِهِ فَإِنَّهُ يُؤَدَّى إلَيْهِ شَطْرُهُ. البخاري ومسلم711. A woman is not allowed to fast without her husband’s permission while he is present at home, or to let anybody into his house without his permission, and when she gives money without his order, half of the recompense (from Allah) goes to him. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
712- لا يَنْظُرُ اللهُ إَلَى امْرَأَةٍ لاَ تَشْكُرُ لِزَوْجِهَا وَهِيَ لاَ تَسْتَغِني عَنْهُ. النسائي712. Allah does not look at a woman who does not thank her husband while she cannot do without him. (Al-Nasaai)
713- إِذَا بَاتَتِ المَرْأَةُ هَاجِرَةً لِفِراشِ زَوْجِهَا لَعَنَتْها المَلائِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ. البخاري ومسلم713. The woman who spends the night forsaking her husband’s bed, Angels curse her until the morning. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
714- أَيَّما امْرَأَةٍ سَأَلَتْ زَوْجَهَا الطَّلاَقَ مِنْ غَيِرْ بَأْسٍ فَعَلَيْها حَرَامٌ رائِحَةُ الجَنَّةِ. أحمد714. Whosoever woman asks her husband to divorce her without a reason, she will be forbidden the scent the Paradise. (Ahmad)
715- أيَّما امرأةٍ وَضْعَتِ ثِيابَها في غَيْرِ بَيْتِ زَوْجِهَا فَقَدْ هَتَكَتْ سِتْرَ ما بَيْنَها وبَيْنَ اللهِ. أحمد715. Any woman who takes her clothes off in a house other than her husband’s will destroy the veil between her and Allah. (Ahmad)
716- أَوْصَى رَسُولُ اللهِ امْرأةً بِزَوْجِها قَائِلاً: انْظُرِي أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فإِنَّما هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ. أحمد
716. The Prophet advised a woman saying, “See where you are from him (in his view) because he is your Paradise (if he is pleased with you), and he is your Fire (if he is angry with you).” (Ahmad)
717. The worst person in rank in the doomsday is the husband who tells secretly to his wife and she tells secretly to him then he reveals her secret. (Muslim)
718- لاَ تُنْفِقُ امْرَأَةٌ شَيْئاً مِنْ بَيْتِ زَوْجِهَا إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِهِ قِيْلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ولاَ الطَّعامَ قَالَ ذلكَ أَفْضَلُ أَمْوالِنَا. أحمد
718. “The woman is not allowed to spend from her husband’s household without his permission.” They asked him, “Oh Messenger of Allah, even food?” He said, “It is the best of our money.” (Ahmad)
719. Abu Sufian’s wife, Hind, said, “Oh Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufian is a miserly man, and I do not have but what comes into my home.” He said, “Take what is enough for you and your son but kindly.” (Al-Bukhari)
720. When a wife offends her husband in this life, his wife of the houriat says, “Don’t offend him; God’s curse be on you; he is just a foreigner with you who is about to leave you and come to us.” (Ahmad)
721- فَمِنْ حَقِّكُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ لاَ يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشُكَمُ وَلاَ يَعْصِيَنكُمْ في مَعْروفٍ فًإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَلَهُنَّ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ فَلا تَضْرِبُوهُنَّ فَإِنْ ضَرَبْتُمُوهُنَّ فاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْباً غَيْرَ مُبِرْحٍ. الطبري721. Your rights upon your wives are: not to let strangers into your house, and not to disobey you in what is good; if they do this, you have to feed them, dress them, and do not beat them; and if you beat them, do not beat then painfully. (Al-Tabari)