الفصل الثالث و الثلاثون : مَا قِيلَ فِي النِّساءِ الصَّالِحَاتِ مِنْهُنَّ والسَّيِّئَات

Chapter 33: Sayings About Bad and Good Women

520- النِّسَاءُ شُقَائِقُ الرِّجَالِ. أحمد

520. Women have similar rights as men. (Ahmad)

521- اسْتَوصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْراً فَإنَّهُنَّ عَوَانٌ لَكُمْ. مسلم

521. Be good to women. They are a part of you and they are your helpers. (Muslim)

522- مَا مِنْ صَبَاحٍ إِلاَّ وَمَلَكَانِ يُنادِيَانِ وَيْلٌ لِلرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ وَوَيْلٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ مِنَ الرِجَّالِ. ابن ماجه

522. There is no morning except that two angels call out, “Woe to the men because of women, and woe to women because of men.” (Ibn Maajah)

523- رَأَيْتُ النَّارَ أَكْثَرُ أَهْلِهَا النِّسَاءُ قِيلَ أَيَكْفُرْنَ بِاللهِ قَالَ يَكْفُرْنَ العَشِيرَ وَيَكْفُرْنَ الإِحْسَانَ لَوْ أَحْسَنْتَ إِلى إِحْدَاهُنَّ الدَّهْرَ ثمَ رَأتْ مِنْكَ شَيْئَاً قَالَتْ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْراً قَطُّ. البخاري

523. I saw and have knowledge about the Fire; most of its inhabitants are women. It was said, “Did they deny Allah?” He said, “They denied the companionship and they denied the favors. If you were good to them your whole life long, and then she saw something from you, she says, ‘I have never ever seen any good from you.’” (Al-Bukhari)

524- إِذَا أَحَدَكُمْ أَعْجَبَتْهُ المَرْأَةُ فَوَقَعَتْ في نَفْسِهِ فَلْيَعْمَدْ إِلى امْرَأَتِهِ فَلْيُواقِعْهَا فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ يَرُدُّ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ. مسلم

524. When a woman attracts you, go to your wife and have sexual intercourse with her. That will control your desires. (Muslim)

525- الدُّنْيا مَتَاعٌ وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِ الدُّنْيا المَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ. أحمد

525. This world is place of enjoyment; the best of the world’s enjoyment is the righteous woman. (Ahmad)

526- سُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ أَيُّ النِّساءِ خَيْرٌ قَالَ الذَّيِ تَسُرُّهْ إِذَا نَظَرَ وَتُطِيُعُه إِذَا أَمَرَ وَلاَ تُخَالِفُهُ فِيمَا يَكْرَهُ في نَفْسِهَا وَمَاِلِهِ. أحمد

526. The Messenger of Allah, was asked, “Which women are best?” He said, “The one that makes her husband happy when he looks at her, the obedient one, and the one who does not disagree with him in what he dislikes in regards to herself or his wealth.” (Ahmad)

527- خَيْرُ نِسَائِكُمُ الوَدُودُ الوَلَودُ المُواتِيَةُ المُواسِيَةُ إِذَا اتَّقَيْنَ اللهَ. البيهقي

527. The best of your women are the ones who are always loving to their husbands, the fertile ones, the agreeable, and the consoling ones; when they fear Allah. (Al-Bayhaqi)

528- أَرْبَعٌ مِنَ السَّعَادَةِ: المَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ، وَالمَسْكَنُ الوَاسِعُ، وَالجَارُ الصَّالِحُ، وَالمَرْكَبُ الهَنِيءُ. ابن حبان

528. Four (things) are a part of happiness: a righteous woman, a spacious house, a righteous neighbor, and a comfortable vehicle. (Ibn Habban)

529- اثْنَانِ لَا تُجاوِزُ صَلَاتُهُمَا رَؤُوسَهُمَا عَبْدٌ آَبِقٌ مِنْ مَوَالِيهِ وَاْمرَأَةٌ عَصَتْ زَوْجَهَا حَتَّى تَرْجِعَ. الطبراني

529. Two types of people’s Salah will not ascend above their heads: a runaway slave from his master, and disobedient wife, until she returns. (At-Tabaraani)

530- أَيَّما امْرَأَةٍ مَاتَتْ وَزَوُجُهَا رَاضٍ عَنْها دَخَلَتِ الجَنَّةَ. الحاكم

530. A woman who dies and her husband was pleased with her, shall enter paradise. (Al-Haakim)

531- لَا يَخْلُونَّ رَجُلٌ بِاْمرَأَةٍ فَإِنَّ ثَالِثُهُما الشَّيْطَانُ. أحمد

531 If a man is alone with a woman (lawful for him to marry), then shaitan is the third. (Ahmad)

532- انْصَرِفِي يَا أَسمْاَءُ وَأَعْلَمِي مِنْ وَرَاءَكِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ أَنَّ حُسْنَ تَبَعُّلِ إِحْدَاكُنَّ لِزَوْجِها وَطَلَبَهَا لِمَرْضَاتِهِ وَاتّباعَهَا لِمُوافَقَتِهِ يَعْدِلُ كُلَّ مَا ذَكَرْتُ. مسلم

532. Oh Asma', go ahead and tell other women that being devoted to their husband and serving him well, seeking for his contentment, and obeying him, their reward will be equal to all good deeds which I mentioned. (Muslim)

533- كُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ وَكُلُّكُمْ مَسْؤُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ وَالمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ فِي بَيْتِ بَعْلِهَا وَوَلَدِهِ وَهِيَ مَسْؤُولَةٌ عَنْهُمْ. أحمد

533. Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you will be accountable for his kin; and the woman is the shepherd in the house of her husband, and his children, and she will be held accountable for them. (Ahmad)

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